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This is the second part of our two-part series about amplifying a wedding. Part 1 is all about why an officiant wants to invest in a sound system. This article is about how to choose your equipment. Speakers When considering which speakers to select, keep in mind their size and weight. Remember – you’ll have to schlep them around. Then think about the power output, which is measured in watts. Watts are rated two ways: RMS and max power output. RMS (Root Mean Square) measures the perceived loudness of the signal over time. And the max power is how much . . .

There will be a time when you are performing a wedding and there are 50 guests, but no sound system at the venue. You want everyone to hear as you tell the couple’s enthralling love story that you worked so hard to write and memorize. And the guests must be able to hear the couple say their vows. What do you do? Provide your own sound system, of course. Your sound system doesn’t need to be big and elaborate. Only a few things that you can carry with you and set up quickly and easily. Just remember: No wires all . . .

Finding the right words to recognize and remember a loved one at a wedding ceremony can be tricky. Your couple is looking to acknowledge that someone special and recognize that the day isn't quite the same without their presence. When  memorializing the deceased, it is important to find a balance. You want to show show the love, but you don't want to be a downer. Words to Say At the beginning of the ceremony, after welcoming and thanking the guests and sharing logistics, provide a reflection to commemorate the loved one. Consider some suggested language, below. Mix and match to . . .

An important discussion to have with your couples is about the use of electronics. Do they want their guests to use them during the ceremony, or would they like everyone to unplug? As the leader of the ceremony, it is your responsibility to set the tone and convey your couple's wishes. If they are unsure about how to proceed, share with them this article about unplugged weddings. It will help them think through their options. How-To Say It Following is some suggested language to share your couple's wishes. Modify the message so it reflects your own style - and of . . .

There are many reasons a couple may want a commitment ceremony without actually getting married. As a professional who performs all sorts of lifecycle ceremonies, of course you'll oblige. Why Not Tie the Knot? The particular reason a couple chooses not to make their union legally binding is peripheral. Despite that, it is important for officiants to understand some circumstances that could be driving decisions. Marriage is a legal act that may influence child support, alimony, divorce settlements One party is already married to another and for whatever reason cannot or will not end the previous marriage One or both . . .

A common question we receive from JPus members is about the vows. Couples don't want to say them. "Just sign the license", they may say. They just want to be -- married. So, what's an officiant to do? The answer depends on the state. But, none of the states that JPus/findaJP is active in requires any specific language to be used. Review the Requirements in: Connecticut | Florida | Maine | Massachusetts | New Hampshire | Vermont Connecticut No specific words must be said between the couple. Rather, the officiant must make sure that the marriage license has the correct . . .